No one cares about young men

No one cares about young men:

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No one cares about young men.

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They don’t.

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Society has moved on from them.

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It’s vilified them.

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It’s mistreated them.

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It’s left them behind.

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We’re hitting a crisis point in the West.

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We are getting to a point where we have an increasing number of uneducated, unemployed, sexually frustrated young men.

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As Scott Galloway says, that is the most dangerous thing for society.

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Women have evolved massively over the last few generations.

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Birth control changed everything.

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Women’s rights.

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Getting out of the house.

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Getting jobs.

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Prioritizing their careers.

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Getting educated.

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All great things.

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But men haven’t kept up proportionally.

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We’re in a crisis because of that.

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As per Scott Galloway again, the number of college graduates in the US is approaching 2:1.

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Female to Male.

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Double the number of women are graduating compared to men.

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That’s a good thing right?

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Wrong.

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Why?

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Because men aren’t keeping up.

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If we look back to evolutionary history, men are supposed to be the providers.

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They’re supposed to be masculine.

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Leaders.

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In charge.

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But now women want to be that.

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As they should.

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But they can’t expect men to keep up.

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Or if they do, it’s a tiny tiny number.

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Here’s why it’s a problem.

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The more educated women, especially in positions of power, the better for society.

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But the worse for relationships.

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Why?

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Women are less likely to date down.

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They want to date men equivalent to them or above them.

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That’s hard if you’re a successful woman.

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Males feel emasculated.

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Their male ego is damaged.

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They feel less than.

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They feel like they’re not the provider.

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As a woman, you might think that’s good.

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But that’s really bad.

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It means you can’t find a mate.

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You stay single for longer.

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It becomes harder to find someone.

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I’ve talked to a few of my female doctor friends who are approaching their 30s.

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Dating is brutal for them.

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They can’t tell guys on their dates that they’re doctors.

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It immediately turns the guy off.

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It stops them being interested.

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It makes them feel less than, whether good or bad.

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That’s not good for society as a whole.

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It also means if you’re doing well as a guy, a lot of women will be after you.

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How hard is that to find these days?

A confident guy who’s working to something, earning good money, fun, interesting and a good partner?

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A lot of people would say that’s impossible.

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But I think we can get more people there.

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I think we can get more men there.

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I think we can get more young men there.

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How?

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Education.

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Speak to them.

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Don’t put them down.

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Help them.

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Inspire them.

Teach them.

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Give them good role models.

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Be honest.

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Be direct.

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Make them take accountability.

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It’s what Jordan Peterson is trying.

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No matter what you think of his politics or opinions, his books as guides for life are incredible.

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Nothing short of spectacular.

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Touches so many subjects.

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So many disciplines.

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But he makes it understandable.

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Digestible.

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Honest.

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Direct.

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He points the finger at you and needs you to take control.

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Men need that.

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They need people to talk to them.

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They need people to teach them.

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They need people to care about them.

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We are leaving them behind in the West.

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That is bad.

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It’s bad for women, relationships and society as a whole.

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We need people to care.

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We need people to care about young men.

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