Why do I care so much?

Thinking on what-ifs, letting go of the negativity in your head and finding the right person
May 24, 2022
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Why do I care so much?

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Why do I care so much?

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About a nobody?

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About a person that told you to take a hike?

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I don’t know.

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We all think about the what-ifs.

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The people that got away.

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Only if we said something.

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Or did something.

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Guess what?

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You didn’t.

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Get over it.

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They let you go.

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Move on.

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If you did everything you could, you should have no regrets.

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But there’s always that tiny voice.

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The one that never goes away.

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That tells you ‘it’s your fault.’

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‘No one will ever love you.’

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‘Everyone’s rejected you your whole life.’

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Stop listening to that voice.

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Watch it and let it go.

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Stop being so negative to yourself.

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You did everything you could at the time.

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Could I have made different decisions at different moments?

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Yea of course.

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But I didn’t.

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So move on.

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The right person will be there for you at the right time.

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Do things for yourself.

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Follow your own passions.

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Meet people with similar hobbies.

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You’ll be fine.

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You’re a good dude who’s doing something with his life.

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Anyone would be lucky to have you.

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So don’t worry.

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Stop caring so much about those that rejected you in the past.

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They won’t be with you in the future.

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'Keep Going You're Doing Great'

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