You have to decide what you want out of life

You have to decide what you want out of life:

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You have to decide what you want out of life.

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Get after it.

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No one else can choose it for you.

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Everything will pull you in many directions.

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Your family, your friends, your social media feeds, your environment, etc.

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It’ll push you down a certain path.

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But are you happy with that path?

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Are you fulfilled?

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Because most of us are not.

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We’re lacking something.

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We’re missing that spark in our eyes.

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Why do we get up every morning?

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What’s our purpose?

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Most of us haven’t asked ourselves that question.

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We haven’t taken the time.

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Why?

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We don’t have time, right?

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We’re too busy, too many people pulling us in different directions, we’re stressed, etc. 

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All excuses.

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Take a look at your phone usage and social media usage. 

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We all have the same amount of time.

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But we don’t have people to look up to.

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We don’t have people in our lives asking those questions.

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We don’t see people in our environment being that self-reflective.

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We’re not self-reflective enough as a society.

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Why do we do what we do?

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Why?

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A fundamental question we learned in grade school.

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Who? What? Where? When? How? And why?

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Be curious.

Question everything.

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All of it.

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Because you’ve been told a lie.

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Just like all of us have.

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The world is not as simple as you think.

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Your opinion is one amongst 7 billion.

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You don’t matter.

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Neither do I.

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But we need to feel like we do.

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We need to feel that we matter.

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Guess what?

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We don’t.

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None of us.

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Even those at the top who think they’re hot shit.

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They’re here today, gone tomorrow.

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Like we all are.

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So enjoy it while it lasts.

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Because the ride only goes on for so long.

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Just know that you have more of an opportunity today than any other time in history to completely change the trajectory of your life.

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How?

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The Internet.

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Spend a few years learning any specific skill that you like, commit a few hours a day, teach people about it and earn a living for the rest of your life.

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But it will be hard.

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It will be a struggle.

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There will be other things that will want to take your time.

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Block that out and decide what you want out of life.

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We all have the same 24 hours.

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We all have access to all the world’s information at our fingertips (although the Internet is heavily censored, that’s a topic for another day).

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So decide.

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What do you want?

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How do you want to spend your time?

Wasting it away looking at people’s stories you met once 5 years ago? Or endlessly scrolling through Tik Tok letting the AI rewire your brain?

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Enjoy that because your brain is slowly rotting.

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Just like mine.

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I’m not immune to any of this.

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The brainwashing these social media companies have done is incredible.

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Society has never been more distracted with more of an overload of information constantly delivered to us 25 hours a day, 8 days a week.

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It makes us feel smarter yet dumber at the same time.

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It sucks us back in whenever we’re bored.

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Forcing us out of our time to think.

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The most impactful people in history gave themselves time to think.

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Literally.

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Blocked in their calendar multiple hours during the week to just patter around.

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Walk. 

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Sit.

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Stare at a wall.

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Einstein was famous for it.

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Came up with the theory of relativity through a thought experiment.

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The best in the world over the next few generations will do that.

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They’ll spend time thinking and eliminating distractions.

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They’ll be the movers and shapers.

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The ones who look at the world, decide what they want out of life and get after it.

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Think and Grow Rich changed it all for me.

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That, meditating and journaling made me see the light.

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It made me direct myself to a purpose.

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It gave me direction.

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Whether I accomplish my goals is not in my control, but the effort that it takes to get there is.

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You have to decide what you want out of life.

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Go get it.

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