Tips for weddings

Tips for weddings:

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Tips for weddings.

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I’ve been to a few weddings in my life.

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More than a few.

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A lot.

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I danced at them for over a decade.

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And it wasn’t once a year.

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As you get older, you notice things.

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What works well.

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What doesn’t.

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Here are my learnings.

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Rule number 1 - the only things people care about are…

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Food, music, alcohol.

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Everything else is irrelevant.

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Irrelevant.

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Don’t screw those up.

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People will walk away disappointed if you screw those up.

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I’ve seen those epic nights.

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When the DJ is on point, the alcohol is flowing and everyone has a had a great meal…

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Man…

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Those nights hit different.

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It’s a blast.

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An experience people don’t forget.

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Give them that.

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Today was bad.

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My cousin’s wedding.

So much expectation.

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So little follow-through.

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Poorly planned.

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Poorly executed.

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Poorly thought out.

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Left people dry.

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Left people down.

Left people bored.

Weddings should never be like that.

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Ever.

It’s a celebration.

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Especially Indian weddings.

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You should have energy at each of your events.

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Especially when you do it big.

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We had 750 people today.

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That’s a lot.

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Your job is to make sure they have a good time.

That’s the point.

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Especially for Indian weddings.

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It’s not about the people getting married.

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It’s about the party.

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If you show people a good time, they’ll remember it forever.

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There are so many duds.

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So many misses.

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So many poorly planned.

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Don’t be like that.

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Get a good DJ.

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Have good food.

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Make sure there’s alcohol flowing.

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Always.

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Keep water at tables.

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Anytime something finishes, it should be replaced.

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Wine at the tables.

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Bar always open.

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People should always be able to drink.

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Always.

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That’s what weddings are about.

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Don’t screw up the program.

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Most are boring.

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No one cares about your 15-minute speech.

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No one.

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Everyone came for one thing.

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To eat, drink and party.

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Weddings are about fun.

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Memories together.

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Bringing families together.

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Put on a good wedding.

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Put on a good show.

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Keep the energy up.

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Let the drinks flow.

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Have a good DJ.

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Then you’ll have a great wedding.

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Enjoy those wedding tips :)

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